Co zrobić by zapobiec ewentualnemu uprowadzeniu dziecka za granicę przez drugiego rodzica:porady prosto z Departamentu Stanu USA.

Poradnik: Kroki, które mogą zapobiec uprowadzeniu twojego dziecka za granicę według zaleceń Departamentu Stanu USA, wydziału Spraw Dzieci (Office of Children’s Issues at the U.S. Department of State)

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Wielokrotnym zarzutem, a raczej usprawiedliwieniem, używanym jako obrona przez rodziców porywaczy, podczas trwania wytoczonym im spraw w toku Konwencji Haskiej brzmi:

Mój mąż/żona/partnerka/konkubin ukrył(a) paszport dzieci bym nie mógł(a) “powrócić do kraju”.

Zastanówmy się na chwilę jak głupie i nielogicznie jest takie stwierdzenie i czego ono dowodzi.

Porywacz stara się przekonać sąd, że mimo że jego(jej) paszport nigdy nie był ukrywany, ich prawo do powrotu do kraju zostało w jakiś sposób złamane/ograniczone, co jest kompletną bzdurą.  Oskarżają drugiego rodzica o to że egzekwował swoje prawo do współdecydowania w sprawach opieki nad dzieckiem, a to wg. porywacza było ….[poczekaj chwileczkę… bicie bębenka dobosza …. jeszcze sekundę i… odsłona:] formą znęcania się psychicznego nad porywaczem! Holy macaroni!  Fakt że taki argument jest podnoszony, dowodzi również o wyraźnym braku zgody drugiego rodzica co do “powrotu” [w tłumaczeniu – uprowadzenia] ; rodzic, który zrobił bardzo sensowną, Continue reading “Co zrobić by zapobiec ewentualnemu uprowadzeniu dziecka za granicę przez drugiego rodzica:porady prosto z Departamentu Stanu USA.”

Spam is spam… even when it comes from lawyers.

I have to admit, moving from Phpnuke to WordPress was a true Godsend. No more dealing with incompetent coding causing constant site hacking and hijacking, no more dealing with  hundreds of spam “comments” and guest posts on the site.

WordPress is a completely different (and beautiful) “animal”, and since the move, I’ve had no regrades. None what so ever.  The included Akismet anti-spam module makes my life oh-so-easy and peaceful.  I have not realized until recently, how easy and peaceful (considering, the whole “minor” experience of losing my own children to their mother/abductor) my life has become. No more site restores, no more midnight hacking to my database, to remove zillions of records of spam. Yahooo0000 !!!!

Lately, I have been reminded, that people only contact folks who fight for different causes, create free tools, only when things go wrong, so they can complain.  When things are fine, NOBODY, or very few, bother to thank the guys in trenches, fighting for our causes, providing so many amazing freebies.

Hence, I would like to remedy my own failing in the “thanking department”, and do so to all WordPress creators and contributors for their outstanding work.

Your hard work is providing this incredible tool for millions, as it simplifies web publishing, no matter how trivial the content may be, no matter how inexperience the users can be.

Thank you very much, indeed.

Having said all of that, now, to the subject at hand – spam from lawyers and others. Continue reading “Spam is spam… even when it comes from lawyers.”

A template for the official complaints to European Court of Justice in Strasburg

I think that you may find the attached document very useful. It is a Microsoft Word template for the complaints to the European Court of Justice. I know that few of you are working as we speak on such a document.

I think that you may find the attached document very useful. It is a Microsoft Word template for the complaints to the European Court of Justice. I know that few of you are working as we speak on such a document.

Here it is Wzór skargi do sądu w Strasburgu….

Reason for poor enforcement of Hague Convention orders in Poland

I just received a fax from the Polish Central Authorities describing the procedure, which is used in Poland to enforce the Hague Convention treaty. Essentially, it is up to the left-behind parent to enforce the court decision to recover kidnapped children. As it stands today, Poland still fails to fully fulfill its Hague Convention obligations in this area…

Hi Folks,

I just received a fax from the Polish Central Authorities describing the procedure, which is used in Poland to enforce the Hague Convention treaty. Essentially, it is up to the left-behind parent to enforce the court decision to recover kidnapped children. As it stands today, Poland still fails to fully fulfill its Hague Convention obligations in this area …

In a nutshell, the kidnapping parent faces minimal Punishment and the process will take few more months (weeks, at best) should my wife decide to use all possible legal avenues. The maximum punishment for violating the court’s order is laughable… ~ 18.00 USD
a day. Continue reading “Reason for poor enforcement of Hague Convention orders in Poland”

Parental Alienation

Dr. Richard A. Gardner is an expert in PAS – a nightmare that no parents and child should experience in own life.

Parental Alienation Syndrome is: “a disturbance in which children are obsessively preoccupied with deprecation and/or criticism of a parent, denigration that is unjustified and/or exaggerated….” “The most important factor which produces Parental Alienation Syndrome in a child is fear; fear, not of the parent for whom the child professes hatred, but fear of the so-called ‘loved’ parent, the ‘hostage taker.’”

Dr. Richard A. Gardner